The near-death experience of Sheikh Abdullah Daghestani

 

 

Sheikh Abdullah Daghestani
I saw my mother for only one or two weeks. Then they took me to the battle known as Safar Barlik in the Dardanelles. One day there was an attack from the enemy and about 100 of us were left behind to defend a frontier. I was an excellent marksman, able to hit a thread from a great distance. We were unable to defend our position and were under fierce attack. I felt a bullet strike my heart and I fell to the ground mortally wounded.

As I lay dying, I saw the Prophet salla   coming to me. He said, ‘O my son, you were destined to die here, but we still need you on this earth in both your spiritual and physical form. I am coming to you to show you how a person dies and how the Angel of Death takes the soul.’ He presented me with a vision in which I saw my soul leaving my body, cell by cell, beginning from the toes. As the life was withdrawing, I could see how many cells are in my body, and the function of every cell, and the cure for every sickness of each cell. I heard the dhikr of every cell.
As my soul was passing away I experienced what a person feels when he dies. I was brought to see the different states of death: painful states of death, easy states of death and the most blissful states of death. The Prophet salla  told me, ‘You are from those who pass in a blissful state of death.’ I was enjoying that passing so much because I was going back to my Origin, which made me comprehend the secret of the Qur’anic ayat, “To Allah we belong, and to Him is our return” [2:156].
That vision continued until I experienced my soul departing on the last breath. I saw the Angel of Death come and heard the questions he would ask. All the kinds of visions that appear to the dying I experienced, yet I was alive during that experience and this enabled me to understand the secret of that state.
Then I saw in that vision my soul looking down on my body, and the Prophet salla  was telling me, ‘Come with me!’ I accompanied the Prophet salla , and he took me to a vision of the Seven Heavens. I saw everything he wished me to see in the Seven Heavens, and then he raised me to the State of Maqam as-Sidq (the Station of Truthfulness), where I met all the Prophets, all the saints (Siddiqeen), all the martyrs, and all the righteous (Saliheen).
“Then he said, ‘O my son, now I am going to take you to see the tortures of Hell.’ There I saw everything that the Prophet salla   had mentioned in the hadeeth about the tortures and punishments of that place. I said, ‘O Prophet  , you who were sent as a Mercy for Human Beings, is there not any way for these people to be saved?’ He replied to me, ‘Yes, my son, with my intercession they can be saved. I am showing you the fate of those people if I did not have the power to intercede for them.’
“Then the Prophet salla  said, ‘O my son, now I will return you to earth and to your body.’ As soon as the Prophet salla  said that, I looked down and saw my body, looking somewhat swollen. I looked at that and said, ‘O Prophet salla of God, it is better to be here with you. I don’t want to go back. I am happy with you in the Divine Presence. Look at that dunya, I have already been there and now I have left. Why must I go back? Look, my body is swollen.’
“He said, ‘O my son, you must go back. That is your duty.’ By the order of the Prophet salla  I went back to my body, even though I did not want to. As I entered my body I saw the bullet in my heart had been encased in flesh and the bleeding had stopped. As I smoothly entered into my body the vision ended. When it ended I saw the medics on the field of battle looking for the survivors among the dead. Then one of them said, ‘That one is alive, that one is alive.’ I had no power to speak or to move, and I realized that it had been seven days that my body had been lying there.”
“They took me and treated me, until I recovered and my health was restored. Then they sent me back to my uncle. As soon as I reached him he told me, ‘O my son, did you enjoy your visit?’ I didn’t say ‘yes’ and I didn’t say ‘no’, as I wanted to know if he meant the visit to the army or the visit in the company of the Prophet salla . Then he asked me again, ‘O my son did you enjoy your visit with the Prophet salla ?’ Then I realized that he knew everything. So I ran to him and kissed his hand and I told him, ‘O my Shaykh I went with the Prophet salla  and I must admit that I didn’t want to come back. But he told me that is my duty.”

Ramadan and Exercise

Exercise and Ramadan

We are living in a society which puts considerable importance on physical health and longevity.As long as we don’t get obsessed about this and make it into a god,which many people do, it is fine and well.During the month of Ramadan,however,we,need to make some adaptations.I don’t believe that intense aerobic exercise of any kind or hot Yoga are compatible with fasting.As I have stated in the past ,the two most relevant physiological problems during Ramadan are dehydration and hypoglycemia.Both are avoidable but one needs to be cautious.Any form of exercise that induces sweating should be avoided as it can induce dehydration and any intense forms of exercise could compromise our glucose storage and this can give rise to hypoglycemia.That is why ,generally,diabetics are not able to fast.

On an interesting side-note I was told that the Tunisian Olympic team used to do their training in the night after tarawih.That makes perfect physiological sense.If you have to do intensive exercise that is the time to do it.But remember to leave enough time before suhoor to rehydrate and take in the necessary calories to replace what was expended.

“So what can I do?”you may well ask.My personal preference is for moderate -paced walking and Chigong or Tai chi.Neither of those should cause excessive sweating or hypoglycemia.There may well be other alternatives.Yoga comes to mind.Just don’t overexert yourself.Ramadan is the month of patience and submission -not a time for excessive wilfulness of any kind.Ramadan Mubarak to all.

The Reflexology of the Face

I have been thinking about this for a long-time,wondering if it was possible to systematize and teach in any way,the reading of the face.Reflexologists have developed a map of the foot where each organ in the body is represented by an area of the foot.They claim to be able to diagnose physical ailments in this manner.So I wondered if we can do the same with the Face and spiritual ailments.Here is what I have discovered so far.

  1. The eyes: Most of us know the expression”The eyes are the mirror of the soul” or “the window to the soul” This is largely true -with some caveats.An important one is to distinguish between light (nur) and fire (nar) in the eyes.As opposed to light, which is almost always a good sign,fire can  indicate excessive emotion or, even more often, in spiritual matters fanaticism.At that point it becomes dangerous.At other times,like in schizophrenia, but by no means limited to psychosis, the eyes can have a far-away look.You can notice this,for example,in people who have used a lot of psychedelic drugs like LSD.These people are no longer in this world but the world they are in is shadowy and dark rather than luminous.You can also find this in esotericists and magicians.I remember the time I entered a bookstore specializing in Alistair Crowley,the famous magician.I had to leave quickly.The vibe was too dark and even scary..Many of the psychics and clairvoyants and Tarot card-readers have the same other-worldly darkness about them.
  2. The face-1:One of the interesting phenomenon I have encountered,that puzzled me at first ,was people who have light in their eyes but not in their face.Many of the people I have labelled spiritual illuminati have this constellation.It is common in the community of non-dualists or Advaita Vedantists. This tells me they are ungrounded-in contact with the light but not the manifestation of the light on the Earthly plane.This un-groundedness can and will play havoc with their Earthly relations.Just ask their partners lol.
  3. The Face-2 At the opposite extreme, you have the spiritual materialists like the Wahhabbi.They have no light either in their eyes nor in their facer.Stay away from them! I remember an event in Jordan when I was invited to dinner by one of them.They,of course,were very critical of Sufism and my Sheikh there.We began by discussing their ideas but the exercise was useless.At one point,I just had to get up and leave as there was clearly no point in discussing. .I said to them frankly ” How can I accept your reasoning when I see no nur(spiritual light) on your faces?” I had the same reaction to a similar group of Shia people trying to convince me that they had the right interpretation of Islam.Islam without nur?! That makes no sense to me.
  4. The face -3. I have also noticed in many converts,on the point of conversion,a light illuminate their entire face ,even if they apparently seemed to be converting only to get married.This could only serve to confirm my faith that this religion,Islam, is pure and true.My apologies to the liberals who may see this as sectarian but this is what I see, not what I think!
  5. The mouth:Another really important area.One can see a lot of character traits in the mouth.One ignores them at one’s own peril.I began this article as I watched the tennis finals in Paris.Although I don’t want to personalize this analysis,I think it does help to be specific, at times.If you examine the mouth of the number one tennis player in the world,Novak Djokovic,you will see that there is something seriously wrong on the level of character.I am not sure how to label it but it is somewhere in the range of ‘dishonest’,’hypocritical’ and ‘smug’. Maybe one of the readers of this article  will find a more apt term for it.You are more than welcome to share this.Then there is Donald Trump.Shut off the volume on your TV or laptop and observe his mouth-not the words,the expression.It will be very hard to vote for him after you see that. If you think all politicians are the same look at Hilary whose expression is much more subtle and Obama who has none of this.For those who know me,you may be surprised at the positive slant on Obama lol. I have always maintained,throughout my criticism, he has good character!.

So this is a beginning.I hope to pursue this line of investigation to deepen and refine it in the future as time permits inshallah.We all have an obligation to develop our discernment.It is in that perspective that I present this material.

 

In Defense of the Western Paradigm

                                   In Defense of the Western Paradigm

 I recently attended a meditation seminar with a teacher for whom I maintain a certain respect.He has synthesized and extracted some of the most essential mystical wisdom of the teachers of Advaita Vedanta and Buddhism and put it all into Western terms that people can understand and use for self-improvement and realization. I have no argument with his intentions or his capacity to help others.

However, towards the end  of the workshop, one of the more reflective people asked the leader a deep question about the meaning of life and the reason for suffering.For one of the few times in the workshop,he seemed to be at a loss of words.Not wanting to create any unnecessary conflict,( can you believe it?!)I brought up a saying of Rumi (always a good option in a New Age context!) about the contradictory nature of reality and thus the lack of need to develop a coherent model.But I did not bring up what appears to me as a clearer and clearer conclusion- that the Western model(of God and His Creation) answers many more questions than the Eastern model of karma, enlightenment and no-self.

Let me briefly explain my terms here.When I say Western model,I mean the essential concepts that Judaism,Islam and Christianity have in common.When I refer to the Eastern model I am referring primarily to Advaita Vedanta and Buddhism-two spiritual practice models and  belief systems that have become increasingly popular in the West, where the religious systems have lost many of their mystical roots.Fortunately these mystical tendencies are slowly being revived as the practices of the Orthodox Fathers of the Desert in Christianity,Sufism in Islam and the Kabbala in Judaism are attracting more and more attention. We will not address the general religion of Hinduism as it is too variegated and disparate(i.e. confusing) to even attempt a formulation.

So let us return to the point of departure- the question about the meaning of life and the reason for suffering. If we look at this question from a Buddhist perspective, the meaning of life is to attain enlightenment and so be free from our individual selves.Actually that is not a real answer as it begs the question.What is the point of existing as individual selves if we are only to return to the One Source where we came from in the first place. It appears totally pointless! In reality Buddhism is not concerned with this question. It is really only about the relief of suffering. Buddha, himself, said as much.

On the question of suffering, the answer is no better. According to the Buddha, Life is suffering (dukka). Ok, I can see that. When the Buddhists are asked what is the cause of suffering they answer that it is desire/attachment  and aversion.At that point they are in a similar position to Stephen Hawking and the quantum physicists when they address the origins of the Universe.! They theorize that the world was created from the Big Bang but when you ask who created the Big Bang, where did it come from, they have no answers. They may say this is beyond the domain of science but that still means they have no answers. So, similarly if you ask the Buddhists where does desire and aversion come from, they, too, have no answers. They could answer that it is the nature of mind but that, too, is not an answer. If we dig a little deeper, we can see that essentially Buddhism is a psychology of mysticism-often effective in attaining mystical states but incapable of giving answers to the big metaphysical questions. As to the Advaita Vedanta people, also known as non- dualists, as far as I can tell , they are not even interested in these questions. All they want to do is assert the Absolute Reality and efface the Relative one. Everything else appears irrelevant to them.

Now let us look at these questions from the Western perspective. I will primarily use Islamic sources as these are the ones I know best. However, I do not see any inherent conflicts with the theologies of the other Western traditions. Anyone who would like to contribute knowledge or ideas from the Christian or Jewish tradition is encouraged to do so. Like in science, having alternative sources of data is always welcome.

So what is the meaning of life? Islam gives us a few answers to ponder. One is that God created man to worship him and serve him.Aha! The Creation is already becoming purposeful. Man has both a service function and a devotional function at the same time.(The outward aspect of this is obedience but the inner aspect is Love!) Closely related to the notion of servanthood is the idea that man is the ‘khalif’ of Allah i.e. His  representative on Earth. So to use a business analogy, God is the Boss(not surprising) and man is the manager.Admittedly we are not doing a very good job of management but that is another matter .If we continue this way we may be getting our pink slips very soon!

Then we have the tradition (a Sufi hadith from the unseen rather than a scholarly one).”I (God) was a hidden treasure longing to be known and so I created man to know Me and he did so”.So Creation was a means of giving God company! Intriging! Mysterious actually .Why would God, who we call ‘Samad’(truly Independent and Self-sufficient) need companions?!

This invariably leads us to another thing we are taught in the Western traditions – trust in God (Tawwakul).So that, even if we cannot figure out the meaning, we trust that there is a Higher Intelligence that knows what is going on and is administering the world in a skillful manner. ”God is Competent” a Turkish saying states. The idea of trust in God is intimately related to the previously mentioned element of the Western paradigm- that there is mystery in the nature of Existence.The Buddhists and Vedantists claim to be logical and systematic in   their processes. So they are uncomfortable with mystery.They want essentially to be in control. They claim their practice is systematic , even scientific. No place for a Creator who is beyond comprehension and certainly beyond our control But that is precisely our nature as mankind.We are not in control.We need to cede that function to a more Intelligent entity.Alhumdulillah.Are things beginning to make sense now?

Let us continue , then, with  the question of suffering.In The Islamic paradigm,suffering is often a means by which we are tested.So God guarantees us in the Quran that we will be tested.This testing itself is a means of elevation, so the suffering is meaningful, after all.The suffering may also be a form of punishment.But this punishment is a way of correcting us and getting us back on the right path.And finally suffering is a means of purification. So, now, it all starts  to make sense, no. Suffering is not simply bad karma or an unfortunate element of existence.It is all meaningful and purposeful. The meaning has to do with our relationship to God and the suffering is a means to the improvement of this relationship. Got it? I hope I am making my point clearly enough.The Eastern traditions are wonderful ways of attaining spiritual states and cleansing our minds.But they are inadequate in explaining the purposeful nature of existence.Allah Hu Akbar! ( God is Greater still).

 

Feelings-In Whose Control?

Consider this hadith:

Although the Prophet (peace be upon him) treated his wives with perfect equity in what he could control, he apologized to Allah the almighty that he could not be equitable in what he could not control; meaning, the feelings in his heart. Lady ‘A’isha (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet of Allah (peace be upon him) used to treat his wives equally, and say:

“Oh Allah, this is how I divide what I can control. O Allah, do not blame me for what you control and I cannot control.” Abu Dawoud said: “Prophet Muhammad meant what is in his heart.” And it was said that it is love and cordiality as interpreted by at-Tirmidhi. What is meant, is that Allah the almighty controls our feelings and hearts and made the love of lady ‘A’isha (may Allah be pleased with her) greater in the heart of the Prophet (peace be upon him) than the love of any other woman. Indeed, he could not control that.

Very interesting! This is one of the only instances I know of where the Prophet is qualifying the order of Allah.It is in response to the revelation of the ayat telling men that they have to treat their wives equally.The Prophet saws is making a hugely important point for all mankind,Muslims and non-Muslims alike- one that is often misunderstood.We do not and can not control our feelings! God is the muqallib al qulub(the Controller of Hearts).All we can do is manage our actions that emerge from these feelings.Once we understand this and act accordingly much confusion,guilt and inappropriate actions are eliminated.Alhumdulillah .We thank Allah and His Prophet for this clarification.Salaams,Ibrahim

The Problem of Mind

After long reflection and observation,I have concluded that the biggest problem in the modern world is that we are victimized by our own minds.This problem does nor correlate well with the traditional maps of vice and virtue such as the Seven Deadly Sins in Christianity.In fact most of the modern analyses are convinced that most of it is about greed.However if we stick to the Christian model for now,because it is the simplest ,we could say this obsession with rationality is about pride.But I prefer to think of it as ignorance-the cardinal “sin” in Buddhism.Oddly enough this very problem is what the modern world believes to be the solution! Thus Universities and Research and Commissions of Enquiry-most of it leading to more dead ends.Let’s conclude with the words of Jesus”Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven”.Not the Phd.s and post-docs.The simple in spirit.Our Prophet Muhammad saws did not have to repeat that as most of the people around him(the Sahhabba r.a.) were already like that.If you don’t believe me go back to the sources and read the exchanges that occurred at the time..! Nothing like the debates in our universities and governing bodies.

A Good Idea vs. a Perfect Idea

Many years ago a dynamic Sufi activist named Nurrideen had a good idea.He wanted to build a Muslim commune in New Mexico.He managed to raise a substantial amount of money from rich Arabs in Saudi and the Gulf states who liked his idea.He worked with architectural plans from the famous Egyptian architect Hassan Fathi and built a multi-million dollar complex with local adobe materials.It was truly beautiful.I visited it early on in its inception and it was indeed impressive.
When people came to ask our sheikh of the time-Sheikh Nazim about it, he gave a somewhat cryptic answer.He said”Yes,this is a good idea,but it is not a perfect one.” I understood immediately what he meant.This was a good idea in the mind of Nurrideen but not a Divine inspiration-i.e. not really the will of God.
The project began well with Muslim converts flocking to the Centre in small numbers to live and have their children educated in a “true Muslim environment”.It wasn’t long however,before problems began to emerge.The environment was not propitious for recruiting.The locals were mostly Mexican and they had little interest in the project.The people who would naturally have been attracted to the project were from all over America but had no roots in New Mexico and no way ,often,to earn their living. The Arabic and Islamic teachers had to be imported from the East and there were often inter-cultural problems that had to be addressed.
Eventually the project failed.People started drifting away.The Saudis found out that most of the people there were Sufis and pulled their funding.Now the centre is only used for summer retreats.It was a good idea ,not a Perfect one!
How many times, in our own lives,do we have good ideas that are not Perfect ones?This is a cause of enormous sufferings.May Allah guide us to avoid these self-made plans!

Waking Up!

I,too,was raised in the liberal,democratic tradition.Let me share with you two events that helped me wake up.This is from long ago-1975 precisely,for Chantal that means before you were born lol.The first event was in San Francisco.It was the beginning of an interesting but flawed movement called Est seminars(Erhard Seminar Trainings) and they had some legitimate insights.The trainer (that’s what they called the leader) stood up at the board(yes there were no computers and projectors at that time!) and wrote down the “Hierarchy of Spiritual Development).The lowest level,just above animality, was Reason.The trainer underlined the point.”Rationality is the lowest level of spiritual attainment” he reiterated.It was all uphill from there.My entire liberal education was put into question and Alhumdulillah for that.Studying the Hindu and Buddhist concepts of “mind”(as illusion) confirmed my understanding.

The second event occurred at “The Abode of the Message” in the Berkshires at The Abode of the Message “with Pir Vilayat Khan.We did practices called “The Songs and Dances of Universal Peace”.In one of the practices ,the men and the women were separated into two concentric circles.Alternatively we would do some kind of circular movements and chanting”.When I heard ,one after the other,the two collective sounds,I was moved to tears.I felt the sublimity of the Creation.Vive la Difference!The feminist bubble, in which I too was raised, was beginning to burst,Alhumdulillah.Everything after that was a confirmation of what I had realized in that moment.Sublime!

Understood and applied, any one of the posts on this site could change your life-forever!