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The Aesthete and the Truth-Seeker

The Aesthete and The Truth-Seeker

In Islam, and particularly in Sufism, Allah has 99 names. They are called the “Asma al Husna”(the beautiful names).Amongst them are ”al Haqq”(the Reality, the Truth);Al Adil(the Just) and Al Rahman(The Compassionate). Al Jemal (The beautiful) is not officially one of the ninety-nine names although it is implicitly because of a hadith of our Prophet sal saying ”Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty” .The beauty is also in the Asma al Husna(The Beautiful names) although the Arabic hassan at the origin of husna is another name for Beauty which can be used instead of Jemal. The Sufis often talk about the two contrary names of Allah-The “Jellal(“Severity or Majesty)of Allah and the Jemal(Beauty and Softness) as complementary qualities. So beauty is very present in the Islamic lexicon.

This classification of names of Allah has helped me to clarify issues that were formerly obscure. I will try, here, to share that insight with the reader. Please note that some of these names come up more frequently than others.”Jemal” is not one of them. In fact Al Jemal (The Beautiful) is not one of the classical 99 names! It is by no means given the same prominence as Ar-Rahman and Ar-Rahim(The Compassionate and the Merciful) or Al Haqq (The Reality, The Truth) There is no reference that I can find in the Quran itself to the Beauty of Allah although it is implied throughout. All of this should give us pause.

In the same vein, another very important Islamic term, to help our overall understanding, is “shirk” -literally “partnership with God” but used in the sense of idolatry or worshipping of other than God. So we may, for example, have people that are in love who care more for their partners than the Creator. That is “shirk”. Or we may have people whose profession, like medicine, becomes a God in that all their energy and all their attention is taken up by this activity. That also is “shirk” A more common “shirk” in the modern world and probably since the beginning of time is money or nowadays physical prowess like in athletes or sex( the sensualists) or fine food (the gourmet God that we see so much on television like”
The Master Chef”.) Whenever the activity in question becomes more important in the heart of humans than their relationship with the Creator, it becomes ‘shirk”.

A personal anecdote. For about 12 years, while I was following Sheikh Nazim, I would go to London every year during Ramadan. One of my in-laws there was intrigued with all the energy I was devoting to this path and began questioning me and my wife of the time about it. At the end of the conversation, he concluded in the following way. ”I see” he said. ”So you do Sufism and I do narrow-boats (his passion).So fundamentally we’re the same!” I wanted to say: ”No, it’s not at all the same. Your preoccupation with boats cannot be compared to being preoccupied with our relationship to the Creator” but in one of my rare moments of discretion lol I abstained.

So “What does this have to do with the “aesthete?” you may legitimately ask at this point. Well, there is a more subtle form of shirk than loving narrow boats or soccer or Hollywood actresses. It is loving one of the names of Allah to the exclusion of others or prioritizing it in an imbalanced way. This is the nature of the “aesthete”. The Webster’s Dictionary defines aesthete as: ”A person who makes a cult of art and beauty” For him or her, the most valuable commodity, beyond all others, is beauty. You will rarely hear this kind of critical discourse in modern society. For the modern world, cults are fanatical religious groups where leaders exploit and manipulate their followers. No-one talks about the “cult of beauty”. That is because it is a socially approved and even encouraged kind of cult, but cult it is.

This beauty may take the form of a beautiful piece of music or a beautiful work of art or a wonderful play .Whether this is accompanied by corruption or exploitation or injustice of any sort, becomes relatively unimportant .All that really counts is the beauty of the product.

One of the groups of people most trapped in this illusion are the artists themselves. From what I can see, most of them are not in a very good state. Look at their pictures if you don’t believe me. Look at Picasso and Salvador Dali and Ludwig Van Beethoven, Edgar Degas and even Bob Dylan (horror of horrors- my hero at one point in my life-story) and see if you can see what I mean. They do not look like happy campers. In fact there is darkness all around them-despite the beauty of their productions. Many of the lovers of art, or nowadays we would call them consumers, are caught in the same trap-except, in their case, it is more passive. Problematic, nevertheless.

Now ‘Beauty” is not the only trap amongst the names of God. For example, take “Justice”-the way of the revolutionaries and the political activists of all stripes .I was struck in my clinical work, by several patients who were dating people involved in some of the most reputable NGO’s on the planet-Greenpeace, Amnesty International, Médecins sans Frontières, amongst others. What struck me was what poor partners these people were-lacking in some of the most basic human skills of empathy and compassion. At first I was dumbfounded by the apparent contradiction. Until I realized that most of them were ideologues. Since they were lacking in real sympathy for others, they sought out strong sensations and even stronger moral principles to replace their lack of human feeling. None of these relationships ever worked out! That is saying a lot.

In my own journey, at one point I, myself, was a political activist. You wouldn’t have wanted to know me then lol. And you certainly wouldn’t have been well-served by being in a relationship with me. One day I was at a meeting of all the top political activists in my community. I looked at the head table and it became apparent to me, intuitively, that if these people were in power, it would be a lot worse than our current government. It was the time of Robert Bourassa in Quebec and Pierre-Elliot Trudeau- no saints in their own right. But ultimately more responsible and trustworthy than that motley crew before me- with all their supposed principles of social justice. We saw where that led with Lenin and Stalin and Mao!  That was the beginning of the end of my political career. A trip to China during the Cultural Revolution finished it off once and for all.

So much for Justice. There are many other examples of this “imbalance of virtues” for lack of a better term. There are those who appear very “generous”. A recent story in Toronto is of billionaire couple who were known for their generosity were found murdered in their home. We don’t know the final results of the investigation yet but it would not surprise me to find out that they had made numerous enemies on the way to accumulate their fortune and one or several of those enemies could no longer contain their bitterness.

Then there are those who are so Patient (Patience or Sabr in Arabic is another name of God) that they regularly fail to act when it is called for. Or those who are so Compassionate that they miss out on occasions when they need to defend themselves or their families.

So what is the message here? The message is one of balance and completeness. Unfortunately, social forces are such that one or another of the fundamental values gets overemphasized and other, sometimes more important ones, get minimalized. For example, in our current social context, health and physical fitness are emphasized and modesty and piety are under-rated. Ultimately, what is most important is knowing our Creator and getting our relationship with Him right. But that involves humility, obedience and submission, none of which are really valued elements in contemporary society. It also involves faith-a quality which has been much belittled in our “objective, scientific” world-view. Beauty, yes: Success, yes; physical prowess as in athletes yes, Rationality and Analysis, yes. But piety and humility-much less so.

And who is the Truth-Seeker that is mentioned in the title- The Insan al Kamil, the Complete Man. He is the one who seeks balance and perspective .He seeks to understand this life and the hereafter. He seeks the meaning in everything. And therefore he goes to the Essence of all matters- as opposed to staying at the surface. Ultimately he is not obsessed by any of the names of Allah. He is obsessed by the Source of all the names-Allah the origin of all Being and all Truth. Everything else is contingent reality and thus less important .Salaams, Ibrahim

Muslim nde

A Muslima’s nde! Alhumdulillah.For those who do not understand French,this lady tells of meeting the Prophet Muhammad saws in the heavens.The essence of his message is the following”This is the reality.The worldly life is simply a place of testing.Don’t believe what you are hearing on the news and social media(i.e. all the bad things about Islam).Get closer to your religion and practice it more.That is the way to the heavenly stations”.Mashallah!

Three States-Manifestations of the Divine

From time to time on the spiritual path one has a really strong, even overwhelming, ‘hal’ that shakes us to the very core.Read ,for example,the story of Eckhart Tolle if you want a specific example of this.Although these states are essential and life-changing ,they may not be the most important aspect of the path overall.

There are three more subtle states that I have been encountering on a regular basis recently that people may  more easily be able to relate to than than the ‘blasted away” state of Mr.Tolle. I call them 1) ‘the shabd”;2) the Pristine state and 3_) the Love. Let’s go over them one by one.

  1. The ‘shabd’ or the Divine sound current.This state has been most accurately portrayed by the Sikhs and specifically by the Santmat or Radhaswami of Beas movement.It involves a subtle sound current that is directly connected to the Divine.I believe the satsangis,as they are called, use this current to help their adherents ascend to the higher ‘heavenly stations”.Although it is perhaps best defined by Santmat ,it is in fact available to all spiritual seekers regardless of their practice.And it is a sign they are on the right path.Stay with it and your spiritual state(hal) improves step-by-step
  2. The Pristine State: This state has several characteristics.The objects of visual perception suddenly become clearer(pristine).The mind empties(no perceptible thoughts).And the feeling becomes light and peaceful.All is well in the best of all possible universes.Sweet!P.S. I find it is most available at the time after the sun has set although it can occur at any time of day or night.
  3. Love: Probably the most overused word in the English language outside of the ‘f’ word lol.This love can be directed to almost any object-people,places,things.There’s the love of the partner,the love of the child,the love of the parent ,the love of a pet etc,.etc.Of course the greatest love is the love of God but actually that is a misnomer since the love of God is Allah’s love for Himself. He is the ‘mujqallib al qulub” the controller of hearts .Without His ithan(permission) you cannot love anyone or anything. So consider every love experience a gift from your Lord. When you get to experiencing the love of Allah for His entire Creation ,you will have arrived! But until then you can be thankful for any experience of love that you have since all Love is made of the same substance.It only varies in intensity and breadth.
  4. So try recognizing and riding these three different wave forms and tell me how you are doing,if you wish.Have a good and spiritually uplifting day.And thank God for anything and everything positive in your life.This is NOT good karma.It is Mercy and Compassion.We don’t really deserve any of it!It is all Generosity on His part.

That’s Why I prefer Sufism-2

(Responding to a defender of the Satsangi spiritual path)Interesting that you avoid any references to Islam,Peter.And yet as surprising as it may seem to some modern people some if not most of the answers to being balanced are there.For example,in reference to the Kirpal Singh model of meditate in every possible moment I substitute the erxample opf the Sahhabi ,I believe it may have been Abu Dhar who was reproached for spending every day fasting and every night praying.He was corrected for not giving his wife and his family their rights.The Prophet saws said to him: This is not our way ,Abu Dhari.We stand in prayer and we sleep:we fast and we eat.This is the way of moderation” I.e.The Middle Way.”

The problem with approaches like that of Sant Mat and other Hinduistic ways is not only that of the modern world vs. traditional societies.There is a deep-seated metaphysical,theological error contained within it.If our only purpose in existence is to meditate and join with the Absolute(Nibbana,satori,samadhi,moksha or whatever else you like to call it)why were we created in the first place?! The Light and the Knowledge existed before us and will continue to exist for eternity.Or as the Sufis say God is Self-sufficient.He doesn’t need us or our practices! I believe Ramana Maharshi said something to the same effect-that it doesn’t matter whether we get enlightened or not,the Light continues to exist.But his thought was not complete because he couldn’t answer the question of the purpose of our individual,separate existence- a serious problem for the Non-dualists.

Which tariqat?

I am often asked which tariqat we represent.I have thought about this for a while and came to the conclusion that we are Chisthi,Naqshbandi and Shadhili.That means that we are carrying simultaneously the open-mindedness of the Indian Chisthi tradition(Pir Vilayat Khan),the balance between worldly duties and otherworldly aspirations of the Naqshbandis (Sheikh Nazim)and the single-minded focus on marifat(God-consciousness) of the Shadhili tariqat(Sheikh Abu-Qassim and Sheikh Nuh).A potent combo I must say!I feel both a sense of pride and humility at the grandeur of this transmission.Alhumdulillah.

Statement of Purpose

Statement of Purpose:

Sufi Pilgrim’s Progress is designed to provide a context and tools for the path(As-sair) of self-improvement and self-knowledge in all its dimensions(biological,social,psychological and spiritual).The ultimate goal is to attain the pleasure of Allah(God) and the knowledge of God experientially.Although the former is reachable through the outward religion of Islam ,the latter requires the practice of Sufism.

(Anyone interested in pursuing this path should join our Facebook closed group at Sufi Pilgrim’s Progress.Ahlan .)

Man created in the image of God?!

Most of us raised in the West were taught that man was created in the image of God? Where did that come from?Well,here it is Genesis 27: God created man in His own image,in the image of God He created him.

I always scratched my head in confusion when I heard that.It didn’t make any sense.And it led to nonsense like that famous painting of Michelangelo in the Sistine Chapel with an image of God as an older bearded man and a man(i’m not sure whom ) trying to touch him. Anthropomorphism at its worst.And some current sadly misled Muslims of the Salafi type also think God has a hand or sits on a chair! Estagfirullah. God has no form and nobody as we know it.He is beyond time and space and limits.

So what is that statement about in the Bible? An inspiration came.This is another error of translation or at least a very poor wording of the original phrase.It should read:God created man as a reflection of Himself (a pale reflection,no doubt).So man has certain characteristics ,like will and choice and speech, that are similar to the Divine Will,Choice and Speech although much less perfect and precise.In that way,he resembles God.The analogy that might best fit  here is the sun and the moon.The moon also has light but it is reflected light.And the moon also occupies space but it is much more limited than  the sun.

Now there is another likeness here that is even more mysterious.The Quran tells us in Surat 32 .9 that Allah breathed into man of His Spirit (or Soul). So there is an inner connection between our deepest being and the Essence of God.The Sufis call that the secret(sir) and it represents the deepest level of spiritual realization.Hope that clarifies for you what has long been a puzzling issue for me.

Human Love and Divine Love

Rabia al Basra was one of the greatest female Sufi saints.Besides being pious she was also very beautiful and of good character so she had many suitors- including the wealthy governor of Baghdad and the Sufi saint Hassan al Basri.She always refused their hand in marriage.When asked why she responded: “Whenever I love anything other than Him(her Lord) he sends me a test in that very area”.In telling us this, she is not simply recounting her own experience.She is instructing us on the nature of the “dunniya”(the world).

Almost every day,either in my professional life or my personal life,I encounter people suffering from human love.It can be a mother lamenting the behaviour of one of her children,a sister feeling betrayed by one of her own sisters,or a lover being rejected or mistreated by his beloved.These are not exceptions but rather they are the  custom in this world.God designed it this way so that we are obliged to turn to him. Even those relatively rare ideal relationships-husband and wife living together in a loving and respectful way for 50 years,turn into tragedy towards the end when one gets sick and dies or develops Alzheimers and can no longer recognize their spouse.Such is the way of the world.

“So what is Divine Love ,the one that doesn’t disappoint,you may ask?”. Interesting question, no doubt.There are two dimensions to the answer here.The first and perhaps most important is the Love of the Creator for His creation.I have experienced this and nothing can be more wonderful- although it usually does not last that long as we inevitably return to our human state.Immersed in the love of the Creator everything is Peace and Compassion and Knowledge and Acceptance.There is nothing more beautiful!

Then there is the love of the creature,the relative being for the Absolute.That can take several forms.One is “the quest”-the search for the Holy Presence and it involves considerable energy and commitment.What can be more valuable than that as a way to expend our efforts?! The other is the love of His qualities-the love of Beauty,the love of Justice,the love of Kindness,etc., etc.But the love of these qualities, to be complete, needs to realize that these qualities belong to a Being-the Absolute.And that Being is our Lord.Otherwise,those who love Justice are regularly confronted with injustice and thus disappointed.And those who love beauty in its worldly form,eventually see the beauty tarnished and corrupted.

So you are now confronted with a choice.You can follow the Hollywood scenarios and the Romantic poets and search for the love of a companion and thus be guaranteed grief or you can choose the love of your Lord as did Rabia al-Basra .If you choose the latter,you will be tested for sure.At the same time,you may well be given the former as a bonus.As,for example,in the case of Ibrahim who loved his son or Mohammed saws who deeply loved his first wife,Khadija.But those two great ones were always conscious of their priorities and their overwhelmimg priority was serving their Lord.And from that comes all goodness.Salaams,ibrahim