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The Complementarity of Religion and Spirituality:The Latest Metaphor

There is a common belief, in the Western World at least, that religion and spirituality are completely separate entities.”Spirituality is good.It is uplifting and energizing.Religion is bad.It causes division and conflict”. That is the basic paradigm.

My first glimpse into the falsehood of this doctrine was during my paticipation in The Sufi Order of the West and its leader Pir Vilayat Khan,for whom I still have great respect and affection.However,there was a bias towards spirituality in that group and religious practice always seemed secondary and non-essential.Then I began, on my own, studying the lives of all the saints that Pir Vilayat extolled-from Ibn Arabi to Jellalludeen Rumi in Sufism to St. John of the Cross and St. Theresa d’Avila in Christianity to Ramakrishna and Raman Maharshi in Hinduism.All of these saints were pious practioners of their own religious faith-whether it be Islam,Christianity or Hinduism.So this dichotomy did not hold up in reality!

Then I arrived at my own Islamic Sufi path in Jerusalem.And the first page of the first teaching I received said the following “In this way we walk on two legs-“Shariah” and “Haqiqat”.Shariah is religion and Haqiqat is spirituality.The two are inseparable!Dossier complete!

Given this conviction I looked around for analogies that might best represent this complementarity.My two favourites were:”The garden and the Fence” and “The setting and the precious stone”.If the garden of spirituality has no fence ,the wild animals will ravage it quickly and nothing will be left for the grower.If the precious stone is missing its setting ,it will be damaged or lost.Both the fence and the setting represent the religious practice.

During one of my prayers yesterday,a new analogy came to me by inspiration.It was about the automobile .If the car is missing the steering wheel or the brakes,the driver is in serious danger,no matter how well-designed the engine is or how refined the fuel.The steering wheel(that keeps us on the straight path) and the brakes(that establish limits) represent the religion.We have seen numerous examples of this play out in the West in the last century-people like Chogyam Trungpa and Rajneesh (Osho) and Da Free John,amongst others, who regularly broke the rules of their own traditions to the detriment of themselves and all of their disciples.Let us take note and learn from those tragedies.

Hope that is helpful to your path.Salaams,Ibrahim

A little secret of the Universe!(18+only)

A little secret of the Universe! Totally politically incorrect lol”Women cannot manage on their own”! That is why they are always seeking out male companionship and that is the right way to go. It just has to be properly managed.

Now males on their own become dry and lifeless- like many Catholic priests for example. But women on their own often become unhinged. The male companion then becomes a ground for them.The slacker, passive-aggressive male of today is of little help here but then again they are not allowed to assume a leadership role for fear of being accused of patriarchy!

Sufi Sam Lewis put it this way in the Jerusalem Trilogy” Men need women to connect to the Earth, ( the worldly energies) and women need men to connect to the heavens( ideals and values). That might sound contradictory to what I just stated but actually it is complimentary. The contradiction is only conceptual but in reality they are both true,

 

Time Management

I remember a diet book that said that the average restaurant portion is about twice what we should normally be eating.I think that the same may well be true for the use of time.That is, we are trying to do about twice what we should normally be doing in a day.I have been testing this out in Trinidad.I schedule about half the day only.And it is working out wonderfully.The other half gets easily filled,there is little stress and the “empty times” are both relaxing and open for inspiration of all sorts.Give it a shot.You may be surprised by the results!

Comfort?!

Intriguing world! More peaceful in Tobago than Trinidad . Much less crime. But no people of nur. And no interesting discussions. Conclusion: comfort kills the spirit!

All around us we can see people seeking more comfort- a bigger house, a more spacious car, the latest lazy-boy couch! But they are like the iconic donkey chasing the iconic carrot. They never get to satisfaction. Why?! Because comfort is not where it’s at ! It’s a false God. Comfort kills the spirit!

I remember visiting an old friend of my Mom in a luxurious old people’s home. He had made a lot of money as a jeweller but now seemed to be desolate and confused. “I have everything I ever wanted here but I’m feeling so depressed! “ He had no idea why that was. He had worshipped at the altar of the god of comfort and found himself empty. Why is that?! Because Comfort kills the spirit.

A kindred spirit

I knew there had to be someone out there who understood what I have come to realize about that so over/valued mind! “Man has no enemy equal to the unenlightened mind. It is this unenlightened mind that has built up this vast structure of terrestrial selfishness, discord and greed. The false light or lower mind is the emblem of the beast and the number 666. The beast, consequently, is the uninspired mind which is opposed to the inspired or Divine Mind. This monster of the lower mind, this leviathan that swallows Jonah, this creature that comes out of the sea of illusion, this beast with the crown on his head —all this symbolism refers to the unenlightened human intellect.”

– Manly P. Hall

Alhimdulillah.

Social Processes

FBI informed in advance about Florida shooter and warned.But they didn’t do anything about it! This is NOT just a problem with one institution or one negligent person.This is a systemic problem.It’s called DEAFNESS and it exists to varying extents in ALL institutions in modern society.Instead of relying on the Three Doors of Perception-Seeing,Hearing and Feeling- we rely on rules,procedures and logic.This is the result! We have intentionally dehumanized(‘rationalized’ them,I think they call it!) our social processes.Can we really be surprised that we have inhuman results?!

Contradictions

Contradictions are not a problem for Reality. It is replete with them. Contradictions are only a problem for the mind!

So it depends where you stand on the map vs. territory problem. If you believe that the map is reality, contradictions are a problem. If you believe in the territory, however, there is no problem. Up to you lol!