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Distress

From the wisdom of the Sufis: “And the renowned Master Ibn ’Ata’illah says in his Hikam: ‘May the pain of trial be lightened for you by your knowledge that it is He, be He exalted, who is trying you.’ There is no doubt that, for men(and women) of God, their best moment is the moment of distress, for this is what fosters their growth. He also says in his Hikam: ‘The best of your moments is that in which you are aware of your distress and thrown back upon your own helplessness….’ ”

There is no doubt that for men(and women) of God the best moment is the moment of distress. When there is no recourse to yourself. When we find ourselves helpless, that is the best moment, if you understand. It may be in distress you will find benefits that you have been unable to find either in prayer or in fasting.”

Why It is Important to Watch the Impeachment Hearings!

Asalamu aleykum or Bonjour/Hi (now illegal in Quebec lol).This may sound very odd for a spiritual teacher to state but”I think it is important to watch the Impeachment hearings” and here is why. As people who know my overall thinking are aware I promote a bio-psycho-socio-spiritual understanding of our human existence.In recent years the socio (read sociological) dimension has become more and more salient in my overall understanding. This is because each of us,whether we know it or not, are deeply conditioned in our thinking and behaviour by the societies that we grew up in and are now living in.And nothing i know of can give you a better understanding of contemporary Epistemology ,M.O. (modus operandi) and assumptions about how to get to Truth than these senate hearings.Sitting on a high-level government committee might be equivalent but few of us have that opportunity.So this is a live television demonstration of The Sociology of Leadership in our current societies!Yes, it is boring,tedious,obsessional and often irrelevant but that is the way it works! At the end of this article I will provide an example of an alternative approach from another epoch-the exchange between the Byzantine emperor and Abu Sufyan about the reality of our Prophet saws,so that you can see that there are other options that are arguably better and certainly more efficient for getting to the Truth.

Epistemology;the science of knowledge-how you get to the Truth.You will notice that the contemporary idea of getting to the Truth of a matter is via an adversarial process.So there are two sides-in this case the Democrats and the Republicans.They each choose the smartest,most eloquent spokesman able to ask the most pointed questions and the game begins.The art of the game is to get the witness,whoever that may be, to say what you want them to say that will most advantage your particular point of view.You will notice the cleverness,the slyness,the manipulations in that direction in every question and statement by the lawyers and the politicians.You should also notice that stating ‘the truth .the whole truth and nothing but the Truth” is a total sham an d a coverup.If such were the case there would be no need for lawyers or politicians.So the notion of ‘The Truth,the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth” is just as much a sham as “Due Process of the Law” and “Equal Justice before the Law’ and”Equality of Opportunity”(see my writings on the Democratic Illusions‘)

After you hear the statements,the questioning and the cross-examinations,you are now supposed to understand what really went on! Really?! If you are not completely confused by now,it is because you have already taken sides or you have an extraordinary capacity for discernment -something very rare  -at least in contemporary society.

Obsessionality and Hypercerebrality.Another characteristic of societal leadership is its obsessionality and its attempt to figure everything out rationally.The appetite for details and cognitive elaboration of those details seems to be infinite.On and on.The same questions posed over and over again in slightly different ways.Everyone(almost lol) is smart and alert.Everyone is determined to cross the t’s and dot the i’s and yet things get cloudier and cloudier if you are listening carefully.Actually ,one should be able to arrive at a conclusion after an hour or two of testimony-max.But ‘no’ that doesn’t satisfy the modern decision-making protocol .If we did it that way we would be accused of being”impulsive” or “impatient’ or worst of all”unscientific”(horror of horrors!)

Boredom: By hour two ,if you are normal and these people are not!, you should be bored out of your mind! Not these people.They can go on and on and worst of all think that is necessary.They are doing their “due diligence” no?

An interesting personal anecdote.While I was in medical school, I went with my friend Alan,to see a play by one of the authors of the Theatre of the Absurd(The Existentialists)- I believe it was by Harold Pinter.The play went on and on…By the time we were 11/2 hours into the performance the theatre was 2/3 empty but me and Alan were still sitting there dutifully!i looked at him and said:”medical school is making us insane,Alan! This is unbearable.Let’s get out of here” And we did.So I know well how we can train ourselves to endure boredom.Luckily I never became a politician or lawyer.

This may sound amusing but irrelevant.But it is not! These same people,the lawyers and politicians,our leaders!,are actively involved in a deep-seated training process of becoming insensitive! How well does that bode for their future empathy and leadership capacities?.Not well I would argue.And btw,the same is true often with doctors! They desensitize themselves to the point of deafnesss and blindness!

An Alternative Approach-We can call it Leadership,Listening and intelligence. Cesar examines Abu Sufyan.

Read this and tell me what is more efficient-a clever,sincere-hearted individual like Cesar questioning a relevant person ,Abu Sufyan or a committee,of clever,befuddled at least partially compromised individuals holding  an “objective” enquiry?!

How Heraclius examined the Prophet

When God had relieved him of the Persian armies, Caesar walked from Emesa [in central Syria] to Jerusalem, out of gratitude to God for having inured him to trial. So when the letter of the Prophet reached him, Caesar read it and said, “Look for someone from his people around here, so that I may ask about this Messenger of God.”

Now, it happened that Abu Sufyan was then in Syria with some men from the Quraish tribe who had come on business during the truce that then existed between the Prophet and the disbelievers of the Quraish.

Abu Sufyan later said, “The emissary of Caesar found us in a part of Syria, and he took me and my companions to Jerusalem. There we were brought to Caesar, who was sitting at his royal court, his crown on his head, around him the grandees of Byzantium.”

Now, Caesar said to his interpreter, “Ask them who among them is closest in kinship to this man who claims to be a prophet.”

Abu Sufyan [who was not a Muslim at the time] responded that he was nearest of them in kinship.

Caesar asked, “And what is the relationship between you and him?”

Abu Sufyan said, “He is a son of my paternal uncle.” Then Caesar said, “Bring him closer,” and had Abu Sufyan’s companions placed behind him, at his shoulders. Then he told his interpreter, “Tell his companions that I am going to question him about this man who claims to be a prophet; so if he tells a lie, immediately repudiate it as a lie.”

Later Abu Sufyan admitted that he would have lied when asked about the Prophet, if not for the fact that he would have been shamed to have others spreading reports that he was a liar. So he told the truth.

Now, Caesar asked through his interpreter, “How is the lineage of this man among you?”

Abu Sufyan replied, “He is of noble descent among us.” Caesar asked, “And has any one of your people previously said what he has said?”

Abu Sufyan said, “No.”

Caesar asked, “Had you found him a liar before he said what he has now said?”

Abu Sufyan said, “No.”

Caesar asked, “Was any among his ancestors a king?”

Abu Sufyan replied, “No.”

Caesar asked, “And do the highborn people listen to him, or the powerless among them?”

Abu Sufyan answered, “Rather the powerless.”

Caesar asked, “And are they increasing or decreasing?”

Abu Sufyan replied, “Increasing.”

Caesar asked, “And does anyone turn away discontent with his religion after having gone into it?”

Abu Sufyan said, “No.”

Caesar asked, “Is he treacherous?”

Abu Sufyan replied, “No, but we are in a truce with him now, and we fear he may betray us.” Later on, Abu Sufyan admitted that this was the closest he was able to come to putting in a bad word against Muhammad.

Caesar went on, “Then have you fought each other?”

Abu Sufyan said, “Yes.”

Caesar asked, “And how did your wars turn out?”

Abu Sufyan said, “Our contests have had alternating results; sometimes he wins over us, and other times we win over him.”

Caesar asked, “What does he enjoin upon you?”

Abu Sufyan replied, “He enjoins us to worship God alone, not associating anything with the sole divinity. And he enjoins us not to worship the fetishes of our ancestors. He also enjoins us to pray, to give charity, and to be chaste; and to fulfill promises and discharge trusts.”

When Abu Sufyan had said this, Caesar told his interpreter to say to him, “I asked you about his lineage among you, and you stated that he is of a sound lineage. And so were all prophets called forth from sound lineages of their people.

“Then I asked if anyone had said what he said before him, and you stated that none had. I would have said, if someone had said this before, that he was a man following something that had been said before him.

“And I asked you if you had found him a liar before he had said what he has said, and you stated that you had not. So I knew he would not lie about God if he did not lie about humans.

“And I asked you if any of his ancestors was a king, and you stated that none had been. I would have said, if any of his ancestors had been a king, that he was seeking the kingdom of his ancestors.

“And I asked you if the highborn people followed him, or the powerless ones; and you stated that it is the powerless. And they are the followers of the Messengers.

“And I asked you if they were increasing or decreasing, and you stated that they were increasing. And so it is with Faith, until it is complete.

“And I asked you if anyone turns away disaffected with his religion after having gone into it, and you stated that none did; and so it is with Faith, with which no one is displeased when its cheerfulness mixes into hearts.

“And I asked you if he acts treacherously, and you stated that he does not. And so it is with all Messengers; they do not act treacherously.

“And I asked you if you fight with each other, and you stated that you did, and that your fortunes in war alternated, now in his favor, now in yours. And so are all Messengers tried, and final victory will be his.

“And I asked you what he enjoins upon you, and you stated that he enjoins you to worship God, and not to associate anything with God, and not to worship the fetishes of your ancestors. And he enjoins you to pray, to give charity, to be chaste, to keep promises, and to fulfill trusts. And this is the description of a prophet.

“I knew he would appear, but I did not know he would be from among you. If what you have said is true, he will soon rule the ground beneath these two feet of mine. If I could expect to reach him, I would take it upon myself to go and meet him; and if I were with him, I would wash his feet.”

Then Caesar called for the letter of the Prophet, and it was read aloud. In it was this:

 

In the name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful. From Muhammad, slave and messenger of God, to Heraclius, ruler of Byzantium. Peace upon all who follow Guidance.Now then, I call you with the call to submission to God. Surrender to God, and you will be safe. Surrender to God, and God will give you a double reward. If you turn away, then the misdeeds of the peasants will be your fault.And, people of the Book, come to a Word common to both of us, that we worship only God and do not associate anything with God, and that none of us takes any for lords but God. And if they turn away, then say, “Witness that we have surrendered to God.”

 

 

Now, when Heraclius Caesar finished his speech, a cry arose from the grandees of Byzantium around him. So great was their uproar that Abu Sufyan did not understand what they said; but he and his companions were ejected. When the men of the Quraish had left the court of the Byzantine emperor and were alone, Abu Sufyan said to them, “The affair of Muhammad has grown powerful; even the king of the pale people fears him!”

Later, Abu Sufyan related, “I lay low, by God, certain that the affair of Muhammad would emerge triumphant, until God brought my heart into Islam in spite of my aversion to it.”

 

Excerpted from “The Wisdom of the Prophet” by Thomas Cleary.

PS So even the Byzantine Emperor had to deal with his own political opposition.But not before determining definitively the truth of the matter!


 

The Catholic dilemma around divorce

Whenever one comes up against a religious edict that is unique to one tradition and not present in most of the others, or then again something that defies common sense,one has one has to begin questioning what has happened.The answer is almost always the same-a misinterpretation of the original scriptures.This applies to the absolute prohibition of divorce in Catholicism as well as the Buddhist denial of the individual soul,the Jewish ‘payees'(the absurd looking curled sideburns on Hassidic Jews) and the burqa in Islam.)All are aberrations of scriptural interpretation(the science known as hermeneutics or exegesis).

So for the current question ,the relevant text is the following:

Matthew 19:3-9 New International Version (NIV)

Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a] and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[b]? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

“Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

From this text,it is not hard to understand the Catholic position.However, several factors must be considered before jumping to such black and white decisions as do the Catholics here.

Firstly ,this statement was made to the Pharisees-an undisciplined and unruly lot ,it would appear.The context is vital here,as is the context in various citations of the Quran .In fact, in Islam ,there is an entire science called “Asbab al Nuzul” (literally the reasons for the descent-of revelation)dedicated to this question .Contextualization is often vital to properly understanding scripture!

Here,it sounds like the Pharisees are either looking for a “free ride” to divorce their wives whenever they want.Or then again ,they may be trying to trap Jesus in a position which he will have trouble defending in another context-a tactic familiar in contemporary politics-particularly with journalists l.ol So this statement of Jesus may be specific to the Pharisees and their evil intentions.

Let me elaborate here, albeit it in a hypothetical manner.Imagine this scenario .Instead of one of those cynical,provocative Pharisees let us imagine one of Jesus’ sincere followers coming to ask for a consultation.He says the following:’My master and Lord Jesus.25 years ago I got married.We were very attracted to each other early on but over the years we have grown to dislike each other in a very ugly way.I have consulted the Rabbis,I have had our families trying to intervene and I have prayed intensely for this to change but to no avail.It has gotten to the point where I have dreams of eliminating her by any means possible.I would,of course,never do that but the feelings are like that.Would you give me and her permission for a divorce?” Can anyone imagine jesus saying “Didn’t I tell you already that man cannot separate what God has united?Are you not listening to my teachings?!”.A priest or pastor or Imam might say such a thing but Jesus,never! Compassion is the basis of his teaching.I think we really need to take that into account!

There is another way of framing this discussion.If one takes into account the Islamic understanding that Allah is the “muqallib al qulub”(the controller of human hearts) then when a man turns against his wife or vice-versa when a woman’s heart turns against her husband (in a stable ,permanent manner rather than a reactive,frivolous one)this is now an act of God! So it is no longer an act of man causing the separation,but rather an act of God! Thus divorce becomes a practical option-one that is recognized in every other tradition besides Catholicism.

Notice here,that we are not trying to make light of divorce.It is a painful,hurtful and disruptive event on many levels including the effect on any children involved.Almost no one starts out a marriage with the intention of arriving there.However,sometimes,it is the best of a series of bad options.The fact that Jesus mentions the hard-heartedness of the people of Moses echoes clearly  the modern era where hard-heartedness has become the norm.So the example of Moses granting divorce to one of the Children of Israel is all the more relevant.

There is one more important point I would like to raise here.I believe that, despite what I have said above,if someone follows the Catholic principle of not divorcing or the Jewish dress code or the Islamic one even though it is based on scriptural misinterpretation,they will nevertheless be rewarded for their intention of piety.Such is the nature of our paradoxical relationship to the Absolute.May God help us all to acquire His pleasure in all our actions!

Jesus (Isa Ibn Maryam a.s.)

Appreciating the sayings of Jesus(Isa Ibn Mayram) more and more these days.“Seek ye the kingdom of heaven and all else shall be added unto thee” Ajib.I realize that most people, including most of the so-called ‘believers’, are operating on the opposite principle: “Seek ye the kingdom of Earth( optimize your worldly conditions) and  heaven (well-‘being)  will be added unto you” No wonder we are in such a mess!

Trump ,Marx and the Ikhwan

An odd analogy,I know, but Trump is somewhat like Marx! He sees many of the problems clearly(the swamp in Washington,China cheating on trade,an over-priced medical system) but doesn’t seem to really know  what to do about them.So like the Marxists,he ends up making things worse rather than better.There are still people, almost 200 years later, who believe in Marx because of the accuracy of his insights.I hope they will catch on quicker to Trump lol,preferably before the next election!

The other thing they have in common is that they are both materialists! Marx was a dialectical materialist.Trump is a pure materialist.So they both believe that you can solve problems from outside /in.Wrong! The mystical way teaches us that problems need to be solved from inside out.

While I am on it, there is a third type of materialist out there -the religious materialist, incarnated perhaps most clearly in the Islamist movement particularly with the Ikhwan Muslimeen(Muslim Brotherhood). They, too, believe in solving problems outside/in,My spiritual teacher,Sheikh Nazim, used to take them on directly-this was before some of their offshoots like Al Qaida and Isis.”You do not understand our religion properly” he would say.”Your idea of an Islamic state is false.We get the governments we deserve(so true! Look at the U.S.A. lol) If you want a better government,help the people to improve themselves” These words ring loud and clear so many years later!

 

The State of the Nation (cont’d)

American Election campaign.It’s hopeless folks! The politicians,even the best of them, are blind to many of the most pressing issues.I’ll mention a few here just so you understand:1)There is an epidemic of Alzheimer’s Disease,Cancer, Auto-Immune disorders and Autism.The most you’ll get from these politicians is a proposal to increase funding for Research.That will,of course, just increase funding for more toxic chemical treatments and more surgical interventions.Misses the point totally about the causes of these diseases and the need for prevention.2) The issue of increasing workplace tension because of the obsession with efficiency.Not a single word about it.Instead the entire focus is on the trade war with China and Economic Growth.3)The question of 5G, pesticides,cancerogenic chemicals in all the new construction materials. Again not a word about it.Only about energy conservation through better insulation(read more toxic indoor air) and newer  light bulbs( many causing a host of symptoms that have never even been investigated!) and electric cars(ever studied the noxious effects of EMFs .The electric cars may well be worse for us than the petroleum-driven ones!(On a more personal level,both me and my brother,even more,suffer more from the EMFs in cars than from the petroleum byproducts of combustion!)4) The ineffective.overly costly,maddeningly slow Justice System.They can’t even get the Trump accusations in front of a judge in a timely,effective manner.Should be a priority ,no?Imagine the ordinary cases like yours and mine.The system is broken folks and it’s going to get worse before it gets better.Voting in progressive candidates may improve things but only very slightly if not insignificantly.Remember Obama! How much did that improve any of those above-mentioned issues.Not at all.

“Experts” and Wise Men and Women

Watching General Matis being interviewed on MSNBC.An intelligent,principled,well-intentionned man.Full of clever formulas like”you recruit for attitude;but you train for skill” and “there are three things important in leadership,supposedly military, but generalizable: competence,caring and conviction”.Sounds good ,eh? Well,anything that doesn’t refer back to the Divine Will and presumes we humans are in charge is bogus to me!That was the genius of the Sahabbas(The Companions of the Prophet sal).They understood well that it all happens via the Divine Will(“Musabib al asbab”-the Causer of Causes).And they had a great teacher in Mohammed-one of the most aware beings concerning this aspect of reality and arguably its greatest teacher.This aspect of reality has not changed one iota in 1500 years! Alhumdulillah that there were people who have taught us this! We need less “experts” and more wise men and women(i.e. God-conscious ones).

The Apocalypse!

Sheikh Nazim was right!There is only one way out for humanity-following a Rightly-Guided leader! The guidance of our democratic society-follow your desire,follow your opinion,follow your wife(who is equally lost) lol is not going to work!Global warming,5G,cancerogenic pesticides and construction materials,economic crises,wars of greed and nationalism etc.,etc. will get us long before that.So we are awaiting a Divinely-Inspired one-the Messiah.But cataclysmic events that make Hurricane Dorian look like child’s play are likely to occur before that.Sorry New-Agers! Your dream of an Age of Enlightenment is a wishful chimera.So hold tight! God help us all.

Trump,Shtrump

My preliminary final conclusion on Trump! He wanted to do some interesting things like take on China and bring production back to the U.S. and improve relations with North Korea and Russia.But he is seriously out of his depth! He doesn’t understand either the limitations of power,nor the need for strategy nor the need to be a team-player! For example ,on the China issue,it would have been far more effective if he could have got his European allies on board with his plan.But because of his individualism and hubris and lack of strategic planning ,it looks more likely that he will fail than succeed.Too bad,really.He does have the capacity to see what is wrong in certain situations which most of the other democratic politicians are either blind to or don’t have the courage to take on..He is just not skillful enough to bring his plans to fruition.P.S. That is probably also why he failed so often in business!

Evidence-Based Medicine:An Alternative

People who have been following my writings over the years know that I have been very critical of the concept of “Evidence-Based Medicine”. In fact,in my first book,”Snakes and Ladders“,I made the following provocative statement:”There is no Evidence for Evidence -Based Medicine”.You will have to purchase the book to see the argument laid out there lol. I will not go into the details of this critique in this article but suffice it to say that if one applied this principle whole-heartedly one would become a victim of what my mentor in psychiatry ,Dr. Heinz Lehmann,called “cook-book medicine’ something that is all too common in current medical practice-doctors blindly following algorithms and principles that they heard at the last medical conference they attended or the last peer-reviewed journal article they read.

Let me begin this exposé by saying clearly that I am not recommending that one ignore the evidence. That would be irresponsible.Rather one should include the evidence as one of the factors in one’s decision-making process but only one of them.Remember also that the evidence is invariably statistical so it may not apply to the particular individual case you are treating.

So what are the other factors one needs to consider?This is by no means an exhaustive list but highlights some of the important modalities one should consider:

1) Clinical Experience.What have you seen (we will fashion this teaching as one designed for a medical practitioner-for the sake of clarity only.Patients and their relatives can adjust the formulation to their own needs and vantage points) to date in your clinical practice in similar cases.This assumes, of course, that the medical practitioner is treating each case as a scientific,learning process rather than a process of applying robotically what he learnt theoretically in medical school.” Medicine is an experimental process” I repeated to my own students.Obviously here,the advantage is to those practitioners with more experience-provided they have been able to learn from their own experience! This leads directly to the second modality:

2) Wisdom gained in clinical experience by more senior colleagues.This of course happens on a regular basis in clinical rounds and conferences at hospitals and clinics around the nation.Surprisingly,however, it is rarely included in the pedagogical concepts taught to medical personnel.The evidence-base that is emphasized  almost universally refers to formal research studies.

3) What the patients say and describe! Shocking idea to most medical scientists.The patients experience is relevant-often that is what should predominate rather than the medical literature.How many patients have I heard say:”The doctor wasn’t listening to me”. Of course not! Besides the over-ambitious caseload he is carrying he also has the ideological back-drop of “Evidence-Based Medicine”.What can the ‘subjective comments” of patients be worth in that context?!

Btw I could give clinical examples of each of these modalities but for the sake of brevity I will have to forego those examples for now.

4) Intuition.After all medicine is as much of an art as a science.Needless to say,as far as I know, there is not a single medical school giving a course to doctors on developing their intution.Just like there is not a single course in law school teaching human psychology to lawyers.Reality is indeed stranger than fiction!

5) The “scientifically plausible hypotheses”.This is something I heard only once in all my CME courses but it immediately caught my attention.What it means is that one should go back to basic scientific knowledge like physiology,anatomy,histology and biochemistry in trying to analyze what is really going on.This is one case where I will give a clinical example as the idea might not be clear otherwise.

I am at a passover dinner many years ago at my parents place.One of their friends is coughing intensely.”What’s going on ,George?”I asked.”i have this intense cough and the doctors don’t know what to do about it”.”So what did they propose” I asked.”They said there were studies to show that sometimes the cough is related to hiatus hernia.So they did a four-hour painful operation on me for that! ” Did it help?” .”Not at all” he responded.” I haven’t studied basic sciences in a long time” I mused”But if I remember correctly a cough is a symptom in the respiratory tract”.Did anyone refer you to a Respiratory Disease specialist?” No,not at all” So I did. There was a very good specialty clinic at the time called the Royal Edward Chest Hospital in Montreal.He was assessed there.The doctors concluded that he had asthma! And with asthmatic medications his problem was solved! All a question of basic anatomy!

There may well be other considerations in clinical decision-making like cultural and economic ones but the point here is that you cannot solely rely on the peer-reviewed scientific literature in order to be a competent physician.That would be doing a disservice to your patients and yourselves. Salaams,Joel Ibrahim Kreps