Most people in the modern world believe that the road to happiness is to get what you want and do what you want.And the society around encourages them in that belief. Wrong! The truth is that it is exactly the opposite that works and brings peace of mind.”Do what is wanted of you and accept what is given to you and be grateful”. That is the better advice.And, yes, no-one can tell you what that is -what is wanted of you.Because it appears subtly and deeply in your heart.That is why a good advisor is some-one who can listen to your heart and not talk from their minds.But they are rare,indeed! May God grant you that niamat(gift) of the competent advisor.It is one of the greatest gifts of all.Salaams,Ibrahim As-Sufi