There are so many of them, it is frightening and dangerous to behold! The socially-conditioned myths like: “You can’t love anyone else if you don’t love yourself” Ever heard that one lol? It’s totally false.

Just came across a new one.” You never know what is going on in a relationship behind closed doors” .Again totally false! It is screaming out at you from every corner. The behaviour in public,, the body language, the attitude of the people involved towards each other, the rumours, their past history-personally and as a couple. It is all there.! “Hiding in plain site” as say the American journalists lol

It is true that we don’t know the details, the specific words said to each other. But the big picture-which is what is important after all?!?! C’mon.

Now how or whether  to intervene? That is another matter! Requires wisdom and discernment and sometimes simple acceptance when there is nothing to be done. But the reality of it is hidden only to the most obtuse of observers. God help us!